How to get over a guy…

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What is up guys…I know I know it’s been a while, once again I apologise as I am beyond crap but one day I will be consistent!!

So, as you can see from the title…It’s about to go down..

Kidding, the whole reason for this post is because I think everyone has been in this position or will one day be in this position. So, how to get over a guy…this isn’t like a ‘Oh he cheated on me, how do I get over him’ post, it’s more of a ‘you like a guy and he knows it, but is taking the piss out of you for it’ situation.

See, there really are people in this world that look for vulnerable people and use them; don’t get used. Now, I know many people that have been seeing guys for a long time, there’s no established title but they both know what it is type thing. Now guys reading this might be thinking ‘but fam, if there’s no title you must know you’re not it’…trust me when I say, if you don’t tell us we’re not it, WE DON’T KNOW. Girls get excited over anything we literally will wait months, maybe years if it’s that bad for a guy to tell us his feelings. Bare in mind what I’m writing applies the other way too, there are girls that will use guys and probably in a worse way. Now I’m just here to give a few tips on how to get out of it (I’m not a specialist).

Here’s a few tips on how to get out of your ‘situation’:-

1 – Delete their number (if you have an iPhone the number will still appear on your screen if you’re really that hurt about deleting it, but man up)

2 – Block them too (do this before step 1 if you are strong enough, which you are!)

3 – Delete their memories, sorry to say but if you want to get over someone…you got to get rid of everything boo 😦

4 – Maybe start talking to others (to distract you)

5 – If you can’t do step 3, work on yourself…develop you into a better person financially, physically, spiritually and mentally.

6 – Get a hobby, maybe start something you’ve always wanted to do or focus on something you love and make it a hobby e.g. singing

7 – Make yourself feel good everyday, it’s hard but its worth it. Every morning, tell yourself you’re worth it and you’re beautiful.

8 – Speak to your friends and family

9 – Get out more, see the world. Explore the beautiful place we call earth.

10 – Become one with yourself before anything – When I say this, the person you’re probably trying to get over may have said some things to you that have stuck with you e.g. ‘I can get other girls/guys than you, you know’…Tell yourself to tell them to go find them!! You don’t need to here that nonsense, you’re better, stronger and have much more potential than you think.

Hopefully these little guidelines have helped and this may soon be you…

Well goodnight from me beautiful people xx



2 Comments Add yours

  1. Lovely post… from the conversation I’ve had with some women, they tend to struggle with accepting the reality of their situation. They hold on to how they would like things to be as oppose to what it is.

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    1. ItsMeSadee says:

      Aww thank you for your comment!! It really can be a struggle and it works both ways for men and women. So hopefully, this reached a few and may help their situations 🙂

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